Showing posts with label church. Show all posts
Showing posts with label church. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Which is Easier? Lead or Serve?

Back on the issue of what seems to have taken center stage in the Christian ministry world. By way of recap, there seems to be an inordinate amount of leadership gatherings, webinars, seminars, blog posts, etc., especially when compared to what's out there dealing with the area of living the life of a servant.

Sadly we live in a culture that has pretty much infiltrated the church, hence the allure to position, posture and stature. Of course every organization needs great leadership, but what seems to be happening is that we have developed a mentality within the Christian organizational world that says, if you're not a leader then your pretty much not anything at all.

It's kind of like freshman playing high school football - every kid wants to be the quarterback. The sad truth is, if 50 kids go out for the team there might be two or three that have the aptitude to play that particular position. But, quarterback is the glory position so everyone thinks that that's the position to play. Not unlike the church - most people see the person who speaks from the platform as the "key" person in the church, so many of the incoming staff have that position in their sights - everyone thinks that is the place to play.

All the while, any emphasis on promoting the important role of servant, is pretty much left on the sidelines. So what do we do if we continue down this path of glorifying leadership and ignoring the role of servant?

Hopefully I'll have more on this tomorrow - but for now, keep serving and keep bringing the Kingdom to the least of these.

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Leadership or Servanthood . . . What's More Important

Trying to answer the question of whether leadership or servanthood is more important is a little like trying to decide which sense is most important, your ability to hear or your ability to see.

This nearly impossible to answer question started swirling around in my head when I began to take notice of all the emails I was receiving inviting me to take part in this "leadership" conference or that "leadership" webinar; and that was not all . . . then there were all the books on leadership, and the podcasts dedicated to building more effective leadership skills, especially in those who are leaders within the church. It seemed as if leadership were the clarion call and that anyone not participating was more or less the class nerd. Worst of all a class nerd with absolutely no leadership skills to speak of!

All of a sudden it seemed that no matter where I turned or tuned, there was someone or some organization selling the benefits of their leadership deal - Each group would roll out their "star" line-up of leaders; groups of people who most of us have heard of and sort of feel like we know. All of this effort in an attempt to capture our attention and our commitment to attend.

After what seemed like months rolling into years of being beckoned into the realm of would be leaders, I began to wonder whatever happened to the value that we once placed on living the life of the servant.

Now that I've set the stage . . . I will do my best to provide a daily contribution to this question of leadership or servanthood - where do we go from here.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

The Art Fair

This afternoon my wife and I went a few miles to the west to join in the festivities at the Lake Country Art Festival in Delafield, WI. I have to say the one thing that stood out to me the most was the collection of people that make up the artist community. It was somewhat humorous for someone like me who sees things through a cartoon imagination most of the time.

It was probably just me, but I could have sworn that the artists and the art that they were displaying started to look like one another. Sort of like the old notion that people and their pets begin looking like one another after a time.

As I turned my attention from the artist community, I began noticing the other people around the festival grounds - the people who were there just like me, simply to see the show. I couldn't help but notice how the faces of the people passing by so clearly reflected the affect of their body language and the conversation or lack thereof with the people in their company.

The entire exercise in observation was entirely unscientific and purely subjective, but even an untrained eye can tell the difference between overt joy and barley able to hang-on to the day.

The sad summation of this whole experience is that even within a festive event, there are so many people that look like the last thing they really want to do is to cope with another day of what it is that life keeps bringing their way.

So herein is my question to the church. How many people walk through our churches with the same look of desperation that I saw today at the art fair? What do we do to speak life and hope into their lives? Or, do we let them walk through the church just like the fair goers walked through the festival grounds - they came and they left with same feeling of discouragement and despondency that they have been carrying around for . . . who knows how long.

I just know that there is something wrong with me when I see someone that needs a friend and I make no attempt whatsoever to become that friend. I guess I have a long way to go in the quest to be like Jesus.

Monday, July 6, 2009

Organic Church

If you haven't stopped by the Organic Church website, you really owe it to yourself to have a look. I mention this site because of its great content but also because of the increasing number of people that I am talking with that have an interest in learning more about non-traditional expressions of church.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Dictionary of Emerging Terms and Phrases

First off let me set the record straight - I love what is happening in certain sectors of the church world. I am a true fan of what is happening through Catalyst even though I don't fit the age demographic that makes up the majority of Catalyst devotees. I love what is happening in certain segments of what is commonly called the emergent church; and I can't help but love what is coming out of the missional church movement.

I have the unique advantage of working on behalf of the church here in the US by working with a ministry that provides week-long, self-directed retreats for pastors and their spouses. Having this position allows me to meet with pastors from all across the country either in-person or via email.

Regardless of how I become acquainted with pastors or parachurch ministries that support the church, the one thing that I have found bordering on the edge of hilarity is the buzz words that we have adopted and use in much of our communication with one another.

Interestingly, because I work with all flavors of pastors and denominations, I have to be very careful when communicating with these various individuals and groups. For instance, when meeting with a pastor from the GARBC (General Association of Regular Baptist Churhes) I probably would not talk about Body Prayer.

Conversely when meeting with pastors from newly planted urban churches that are committed to community life and missional living, I probably wouldn't ask about who they were planning to choose as their choir robe vendor.

So . . . all that to say, I've learned a lot by listening to these wonderful and highly diverse friends, so much so that I feel compelled to create a Dictionary of Christian Terms and Phrases. I see this dictionary being of great help to newly minted Christian who venture out beyond the borders of one or two church expressions. I can also see a dictionary of this sort being invaluable for parachurch fundraisers who are charged with the responsibility of calling on as many churches as possible to present their ministry offerings. Talk about walking through a mine field.

Let me know what you think about such an idea - either leave a comment here or email me directly at jhwatters@gmail.com

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Why Pastors Quit

HB London, a pastor who ministers to pastors recently gave his take on the top 5 reasons why pastors leave the ministry. Here they are:

1. "I can't see any progress being made."
2. "I'm not able to use my gifts." (I can't do what I do best most often.)
3. "I'm facing some difficult members."
4. "I need affirmation that I'm not getting."
5. "I need rest and refreshment."

If you have thoughts or comments, please feel free to post!

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Fresh Start

I have had two other blogs that I've chosen to abandon. I wanted a fresh start on a more focused venue. There is so much to cover when considering the church and all those who consider themselves part of the church, I just couldn't resist creating this new blog.

I work with the church and its' pastors for a living. I love what I do and hope through this blog to provide information to those who stop by that will be helpful to them in their journey as a Christ Follower.